Standards for a respectful, welcoming community
Effective October 12, 2025
DINK Social is a community built on connection, kindness, and respect. To maintain a welcoming environment, we draw clear boundaries around behavior that does and does not belong here. These rules apply across all official community spaces, including public forums, private messages related to DINK Social activity, and events hosted by DINK Social. By participating in DINK Social you agree to uphold these standards, as well as our Terms of Service and Privacy Policy.
We are respectful. We treat one another with kindness, courtesy and humility.
We are adults. While embracing the D.I.N.K. (Dual Income No Kids) lifestyle can certainly keep you feeling young and having fun, this place is for adults only. You and your significant other must be 18 years of age or older.
We are in a relationship. This community exists because childfree couples, whether married, dating, or lifelong partners, deserve a space of their own. We recognize that most online spaces aren't designed with committed couples in mind, especially those exploring nontraditional paths.
We are childfree. We love naps, quiet mornings, spontaneous getaways, and drinks that don't come in sippy cups. While kids are cool and we respect parents and their choices, this is a space where being childfree is the norm, not the exception. DINK Social is for couples who are childfree by choice or by life circumstance. It's not a space for couples who are simply postponing children. If your plan includes having kids someday, this likely isn't the right community for you.
We are inclusive. We welcome diversity in all its forms, including committed couples of any sexual orientation or gender, and speak in ways that make everyone feel seen, safe, and respected.
We are mindful. We protect each other's privacy and uphold trust in every interaction. We are considerate of how our words and actions affect others. We believe in clear, enthusiastic consent — online and off. Always respect personal and relational boundaries.
We are couple-minded. While our MVP allows either partner to post, we encourage communication and consensus. Every post represents both of you.
We are accountable. We look out for one another and take action when something feels off, because creating a safe space is everyone's job.
To keep this space respectful, intentional, and safe, we do not allow the following:
Hate or discrimination. We reject racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, body shaming, ableism, and all forms of exclusion or bigotry.
Harassment or abuse. No bullying, threats, intimidation, or personal attacks — whether public or private.
Shaming others' choices or lifestyles. We do not tolerate bashing of parents, non-parents, monogamous or non-monogamous individuals. Judgment has no place here.
Dating app behavior. This is not a hookup or swinger platform. No unsolicited flirting, propositions, or objectification. Respect personal boundaries at all times.
Inappropriate or explicit content. Sexually graphic images, violent material, and NSFW content are strictly prohibited.
Spamming and self-promotion. Don't use this space to promote products, events, or accounts unrelated to the community's purpose.
Privacy violations. Sharing others' personal details (including screenshots, names, or private messages) without consent is not acceptable.
Evading moderation. Creating alternate accounts or dodging bans undermines trust and will result in removal.
We post as couples. You represent your couple when posting. While our MVP doesn't require technical approval from both partners, we trust couples to communicate before posting on behalf of both.
We show real perspectives. When partners disagree, we encourage honest "Split Decision" posts showing both viewpoints.
We consider both partners. Even without formal approval requirements, think "would my partner be okay with this?" before posting.
If you see or experience behavior that violates these guidelines:
If guidelines are violated, action may be taken including:
Enforcement decisions are guided by these guidelines, our Terms of Service, and at the discretion of our moderation team.
We're all responsible for maintaining a kind and inclusive community. Thank you for making this a fun and meaningful space to meet new friends.
— Team DINK Social
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